I moved out

After taking my children to day care, I came home and snooped through Melissa's phone.
She has sent nude pictures of herself to Brom.

I moved out immediately, and told the apartment management that I'm breaking the lease.
I feel for the most part, disrespected. It's fine if she wants to date other people, that's her thing. But when we're still living together, and she knows how I feel, to do that kind of thing, it's just beyond offensive to me.

So much for someone who has morals and an intellectual brain, it seems she's only in it for sex. And this guy Brom doesn't appear to be a catch on any level.
She just wants to go out and have fun and forget about her motherly duties.

I'm very concerned for our children, she's been ignoring them a lot lately. I don't think she's a bad mom, I just think she needs to re-prioritize for the kids.

She told me that she wants me to be their father and doesn't want anyone else to be considered as such. And I told her, that she's going to meet some one that she loves and she will want the children to be a part of their life (I may do the same), and that they are likely to see that person as their father instead perhaps, because they may see him more. If she really felt this way, she should have thought about that before doing those things.

Anyway, I've had the lovely pleasure of being able to discuss at length this whole issue with a friend of mine. She's been really supportive and I really feel good about myself.
I'm fortunate to not have to suffer this.
Now I can just focus on the kids.

I'm considering joining the Navy....